When it came to ordering, John ordered something quite expensive. I only found out later that she’d only just met him. I saw them chatting and assumed she knew John, so I asked him to come along too. I had gone there to find another foreign friend of mine for dinner. When he first arrived in Shanghai, he was a stranger in a strange place, and only got a job at a small town in Jiangsu as an English teacher.Īfter a few months John wasn’t satisfied, so he headed back to Shanghai, staying in a 12 kuai a night hostel. After drifting around Africa for two years, he heard that lots of Americans hit the jackpot in China so he went to Shanghai. He hadn’t graduated from high school so he had a hard time finding work in America. Actually if John hadn’t called out to me I wouldn’t have recognised him, he looked completely different to how he looked the last time I saw him.

He said that his Chinese girlfriend worked for a modeling agency. He was holding hands with a Chinese girl a half a head taller than him. Not long ago, I ran into him on the street. We asked them to answer these questions:Īre foreign women interested in Chinese men? How do single laowai women want Chinese men to treat them? How can Chinese men make themselves more attractive to foreign women? Which Chinese men do foreign women like the most? What kind of foreign woman likes Chinese men? How should one approach a foreign woman in a public place? When did China become a paradise for foreign men?

Through this scientific analysis led us to a picture of the Chinese male, and illustrated their top five Chinese men. We also got these expat white female laowai to fill out a broad questionnaire. I know that these kinds of laowai are few and far between, but luckily I know a few. They helped us with the good and bad points of Chinese men. We also sought out those who had had Chinese boyfriends, or were married to Chinese men. We hoped to find out the reason for this. My colleague and I made our first stop by seeking out those white women who live in China but have never had a Chinese boyfriend. This way I’ll be able to give Chinese men who are looking for foreign women a helping hand. The topic? Chinese men in the eyes of foreign women. This will allow me to focus on my research. Last but not least, I have decided that to become a scholar, I will have to temporarily give up my day job. Second, to call to action all Chinese, so that we can make our women see that the world doesn’t revolve around foreign men. First, to let everyone know the ugly truth about foreign men. At that moment, as a Chinese person, my self-respect was deeply deeply hurt.Ī few days later I decided to do three things. My French friend was doubled over in laughter (I don’t know why she was laughing like that). This sweet Chinese flower and this old, ugly, fat, short, bald, shriveled foreign guy, and their little baby in its pram. I haven’t paid much attention but this pair before me were in a class of their own. Actually I’ve seen and heard it many times before the story of this kind of foreign guy and Chinese girl. The French girl laughed: “What’s up with you Chinese girls?” She was laughing because we had just been talking about this topic over lunch. Next to him was a Chinese girl, a slim young Chinese girl. That cart he was pushing wasn’t a cart at all, but a pram, with a little half-blood kid in it. I’m a little short sighted and had thought he was someone picking up trash. The French woman poked me, saying “You see that?” “See what?” “Over there right in front of you.” Only then did I see that this old person was a foreigner, carrying a bag, with long dirty hair. We saw from a distance an old person picking up trash. One afternoon I was coming back to work with a French woman that I work with. One, they’re not doing well in their home countries, or they simply can’t survive in their home countries He’ll probably answer that he likes China’s long history, splendid culture, rapid development and changes.īut let me tell you, apart from a small minority who have been sent by the government or their company (usually along with their families), the vast majority are related to the two factors below: On Tianya and NetEase and Mop: Chinese women! Please don’t sleep with foreigners.Īsk a foreigner why he has come to China. The following is actually pretty old but like the “ China Does Not Have Any Men Suitable For Me” post, it occasionally is becomes hot again and is reposted across the Chinese internet.

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